My daughter is 6 and loves playing on her tablet. I'm lucky, since she's clumsy with her tablet and cracked the screen, and she really enjoys spending a lot of time with it, playing animal simulator games and what-not. So it's easy for me to tell what to get her. She'll probably get one squeaky nice tablet and then a bunch of cheap filler in big boxes obscuring the tablet, to hide the finale. If you want "no more crap in this house", buy a couple of meaningful gifts and make the rest of the gifts intentionally disposable (i.e., for kids, coloring books).