I already talked to him before about it and he always says he'll spend more time with the kids and never does. His attitude is "you wanted kids and I work 40 hours a week so you gotta take care of them." I go to my sister's every Friday night for a few hours just for a little break but I can never stay long. My husband ignores the kids and the house is destroyed in the few hours I'm gone. He never puts them to bed so they'll be up until I get home or they fall asleep on the couch.